Pat - 

I echo others' sentiments that you are doing awesome! We often beat ourselves up for any mistakes we perceive we've made and forget to give ourselves credit for the positive things we do.

I've used White Lightning quite a bit over the last few months. One thing I learned is that while the instructions say 45 minutes, a 20 minute soak is sufficient. That information was given to me by a reliable source. If you want to hear more, let me know!
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Krystal
September 2017
Gum Spring, VA
Case History: https://ecir.groups.io/g/CaseHistory/files/Krystal%20and%20Lipton 
Photo Album: https://ecir.groups.io/g/CaseHistory/album?id=10128